this is the best way to make love with someone you really care about ,..slow and easy,.take your time,..slide it in and out for a while,..chg positions still nice and easy,..then suck on him for a while rubbing his balls and fingring his asshole,..then side by side for more sliding,..then he eats you for a while,..on and on,..then both of you come together in a natural way,..not jumping up at the last second and jerking off in her face